Shock and Awe!
Saturday, January 3rd, 2009I ran into a girl while Wake Boarding yesterday that I hadn’t seen since High School. We got chatting about the usual things like what we’d been up to over the years, what we were doing now and where we were heading in life. We also touched on topics like the state of the economy & the employment market, job security and photography.
As it turns out she is now a very talented Graphic Designer. Information I wish I had 12 months ago!
But it was something she said to me that startled me a little, something I haven’t been able to stop thinking about since.
While talking about how I started Coolybar in 2007 and quit my job to work for myself, she stopped me as if in awe, and said “That’s really great! But wasn’t it risky?”…… “I mean, most people wouldn’t dream of it (starting their own business) because it’s so much trouble & hard work. What if you didn’t make any money?”
At the time this left me feeling a little dumb-founded and I simply brushed the comment aside by saying something along the lines of “Yeah well, I love that sort of thing, I love the challenge.” and left it at that. But what really got to me was not really what she said but how she arrived at that comment in the first place.
I was shocked. I didn’t take offense to anything she had said but I simply could not understand why someone would not want to challenge themselves, strive for their best and aim to make a difference in the world. I had never viewed what I was doing in the way that she had. Business, self development and entrepreneurship is my life, it’s what I do, it’s what I’ve always done, I don’t know any different. So to hear a completely different take on my life and how I go about it was some what mind-boggling.
Why do you think this was?
- Is this showing my ignorance for the 9-5 lifestyle I do my best to avoid?
- Is it because I tend to interact with people like myself most of the time who share common interests?
- Or, is it because I’ve never known anything other than to push myself to tackle new & exciting challenges and follow my own set of rules?
Yes, everybody goes about their lives in different ways, with different priorities and end goals. However I’m not sure I will ever understand why some people choose to move through life with no particular passion to achieve as high as they possibly can in their work, home and personal lives.
Never be afraid to do something new. Remember, amateurs built the ark; professionals built the titanic.
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This is a great post by Carlo at 